About my 9 month old son?

i recently asked a question about my 9 month old son and him crying all the time and such and alot of people where telling me he has seperation anxiety and that i need to start seperating him from me but its easy for someone to do so when they have money to put there child in daycare which right now i dont ( i work from home) and have family/friends that could watch him both my parents are dead all 4 grandparents aye dead my uncle and aunt live in another state and my brother works 80 hrs a week he doesnt have time to watch my son for me for a few minutes and as far as my friends goes i have a few but they all have lives and work alot also so im basically alone on this one so for people to say that i need to do the things like daycare and such i ask how? and if u will pay for my daycare then i will.